feminine boys are anything but soft.
if you’ve ever felt like you had to dim your light, perform masculinity, or shrink yourself just to feel safe or desirable — you’re not imagining it.
this space is for feminine gay men who are ready to stop performing and start living—fully, freely, and unapologetically.
we’re not here to chase approval.
we’re here to unlearn the shame, reclaim our softness, and build a community where authenticity is the standard.
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