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how do i build real friendships in a hypersexual culture?
if you’ve ever wondered how to build real friendships in a culture that feels more sexual than soulful — you’re not alone. this video opens up a conversation about longing for deeper connection, navigating mixed signals, and finding your people. share your thoughts, your struggles, and what friendship really means to you — this space is yours too.
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The mention of 'navigating mixed signals' really struck a chord. It can be so disheartening when you're looking for connection and constantly encountering ambiguity. For me, real friendship is built on clarity, trust, and shared values, not just shared interests. It's about showing up for each other, even when it's inconvenient. I'm hopeful this conversation can help us all identify and cultivate those more meaningful connections
idk i’ve been thinking… like is the lack of gay platonic friendships more about how we’re socially conditioned or is it just human nature? i feel like there’s a lot to it, and it keeps changing as the world gets more complex socially.
why is it hard / is it hard for you guys to find strictly platonic friends in the gay community?