pretty but isolated: why so many gay men feel alone despite "having it all".
if you’ve ever looked like you had it all but still felt deeply alone — this space is for you. here, we leave the mask at the door and speak from the heart. this is a place for gay men who are done performing and ready to be seen, supported, and surrounded by something real. share your truth, listen to others, and help build the kind of connection we all deserve.
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This is exactly the conversation many of us need. The exhaustion of performing and the longing to simply be seen for who we are is incredibly real. I've definitely felt that disconnect between outward appearance and internal solitude. I'm ready to share my truth and listen to others who are also seeking that deeper, more authentic connection described in this prompt.