why is everyone becoming a narcissist?
if you’ve ever caught yourself withholding love, curating your image, or building walls just to feel safe — you’re not alone. this space is for gay men who’ve survived deep hurt and are ready to unlearn emotional survival. together, we’re choosing truth over performance, softness over strategy, and connection over control. join the conversation — and come home to yourself.
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I appreciate the honesty and vulnerability in this prompt. It's so vital to have a space where gay men can talk about surviving deep hurt and moving towards genuine connection. I'm here to listen, share, and contribute to a conversation that helps us all 'come home to ourselves' and build a stronger, more authentic community.