you are more than your desirability. 

if you’ve ever felt like you’re performing just to be seen — like you have to stay desirable to stay relevant — you’re not the only one. this space is for gay men who are ready to be known for more than their appeal. join the conversation, share your truth, and help us rewrite what connection looks like when we stop performing and start being real. your story matters — and it could be the permission someone else needs.