a sip and a vibe. request form.
for the gay men who crave real connection
— not just conversation, but presence.
submit a request to meet for coffee, cocktails, or a soft moment of care.
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this space is for gay men in chicago — or anywhere — who are tired of surface-level talk, drained by the apps, and simply want something that feels real.
whether we meet for a coffee, a cocktail, or connect by phone, the intention is the same: presence.
no pressure. no pretending. just space to be heard, to feel seen, and maybe even to exhale. this isn’t therapy. it’s not a date.
it’s connection — for the ones who are ready to step away from the noise and into something more meaningful.
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you can request:
– an in-person meetup in chicago (coffee, cocktails, or tea)
– a 30-minute phone call session from anywhere
– or a mix of both — whatever feels good for you
click below to submit your request.
i’ll follow up using your preferred contact method — so check your inbox or spam if you chose email.
tired of surface-level talk?
then its time to join the conversation.
be part of a real community where we discuss the things that actually matter—
love, loneliness, masculinity, friendships, and everything in between.
share your experiences, challenge norms, and connect with others who get it.
no filters. no judgment. just real conversations.
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